I'm legally single for five more days! We got a target gift card in the mail from a well-meaning friend who could not attend, so we used it to buy a bookshelf. I have to say I'm really proud of my butch shelf for putting it together myself with extremely little help (Mitchy had to hold in place while I put in the screws at one point, and he also had to listen to me yell things like "jesus christ!" and "god dammit fuck!". He's a good man). I WILL post a picture of the sexy bookshelf as soon as my camera batteries are through recharging. I assure you it is lovely!

Thanks to everyone here for helping me through my cold feet, by the way. I really do love this man, and we're not getting married because we have to or need to or think that we should. We're just doing it because we want to.

More wedding anxiousness updates to come!

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