thank you!

i'm finding them all over the city, especially in my hood - it's pretty amazing, you would love them!

thank you for the endless man support - i'm learning a lot here. the book that i'm reading now really breaks down the in's and out's, the nitty gritty "relationship with men stuff" that i need to know/embrace.

it's not easy to be a dragon lady - the david deida book talks about masculine women, and the trick with us is that it's harder for us to trust men, they need to really "prove" to us that they can handle biz, etc.

it makes sense, and it wasn't something that i was particularly happy/proud to read about or indentify with!! coming to terms with this made me feel sad, temporarily. BUT, you know me, i'm reliable, honest and hell bent to get over this self imposed man hurdle!!! i'll do the dirty work if it gets me to where i want to be!

the car trouble! i'm so sorry about this - i spoke with wife's a few days ago and she reminded me of it. i knew that one car was having issues, but i didn't realize that it was the second car too. i hope that everything is okay now.

i'm glad that you guys had such a kick ass camping trip - you've done a lot of fun things for your family this summer!

the teaching job - you know what to do - you can manifest the perfect gig, write it down if you have too, it can speed up the process.

i know the temple you worship at is beautiful, i wish i could see pics.

interesting tidbit -

i was on my way to the grocery store today and i always walk through the church parking lot right next door to us - it's very low key and serene.

you know that this past year i started to duck into churches to pray, meditate and release. this has been a huge help - it dawned on me today that if i went into a church to channel it would feel great, it's already hooked up to receive a higher power, i need to do this.

thank you for thinking of us, we need your good wishes!

i channeled today in the middle of my living room - straight to your heart!

skye is coming home againt this weekend, i'm excited to see him. mars has really missed him.

i'll make it fun, i wanted to take him to the movies last time, hopefully we'll get a chance to go this round.

i love you m - forever, christy

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i'm almost positive that i went there in the early 90's, can't quite remember now.

i'll take your word for it, it doesn't sound like quite my scene. i'm not totally into industrial, etc. i know the venue changes depending on the night, etc.

miguel made it sound like a 24/hour round the house, 90's style down town julie brown scene!

i'll pass - that's not to say that i don't like house music, etc. because i do, but dang! i don't need clockwork orange haunting me in my dreams!

this is still 08'!!!

DC is just another girl from around the way!

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ladyg,

the smart ones - i know it. i'm sorry to hear about the guy you were dating - i can tell that you're not feeling super sad about this, this is a good thing.

the smart ones part 2 - man, i don't know what to say about this. the men i've recently met have been smartish, but not a whole lot of chemistry going on.

my deal is the looks department. my buddy lisa asked me how much of this was a seattle thing. uggghhh, i hate to admit it, but i think that she's right.

i told her that i'm planning on living in seattle for at least 10 years, even after i become famous/start my career in film, etc. i need to find someone to date here, period. i'll get to the east coast in about a year. there's no issue here, it just needs to happen.

i've also run into the hiteous "childish dood" quite a bit up here, i think you know what i'm getting at.

the fucking gamers! god dang it! when did they try to penetrate my world, and why?!

the guy that collects toys and reads way too many comics. it's not really my thing, and while they do have positive/good qualities, it doesn't help me one bit when i'm a single mother working hard and living my life. i need a man who is one step ahead of the game literally, not the guy who enjoys dressing up as spiderman.

i'm all for nostalgia, etc. but draw the dang line please!

reality is fun, it's got it's challenges, but you can bend the rules and make it work!

enough of the downer side: i know what i want now.

single, available!, reliable, honest, trustworthy, a protector, someone nice, funny as hell, clean!, tidy-ass and down to earth. throw in emotionally stable and earning some skrills, handsome as fuck and spiritually open and you've got the whole package.

i'm willing to date a man who's never been with a single mother, but he needs to be a good communicator and open to it.

that's it!

as you can see, i've modified my list a bit!

i'm anticipating your beer arrival, i suspect that it will come today!

did you UPS it?

104!!! that is hot lady! have fun with F in the pool!

i need to pick up my box of breakfast sausages from johnsonville! consumer research here we come!

have a great week - i love you - DC!

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i love that you know so well what you want/need from your man. i'm too lazy to think about it most of the time and when i do get down to naming what i want, i tend to look at it as fantasizing. okay, i'm inspired and i'm going to try to manifest my dream man. when are you going to put a post up for us who need manifesting tips? i need some dc!

amen on the childish men. i like the geek boys, but you are so right about the spideys and the gamers and the toy collectors. its only cute when you aren't dating that guy. and i'm like you on the looks thing. i NEED someone that i think is smoking hot.

yeah, not too upset over the end of the dating game with this last guy. liked him, but he was younger than me by 6 years and not assertive enough and too weepy/whiney. i started feeling like i was settling for someone who really is no good for me or F and i can't let that happen. we deserve someone awesome. cause we're awesome. you're awesome too mama. we've got to hold out somebody who can bring it.

okay, i'm going to go write my list of what i want in my dream man. thanks for the push.

xo
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this is such a treat, and honor, thank you friend!

manifesting is easy, this will give you a leg up:

what i've read and praticed in the last year pretty much breaks it down like this:

1. some people find it easier to play with the images vs. words, for some people it's complete opposite. i do both. this inspired me to make 3 vision boards, all covering different topics. i also use words on a daily basis, when i channel.

2. positive is the way to go - if you want something from someone, think of a time when you gave that very thing to someone else. you can channel what you want, but when it comes to people, it works a little differently.

example: i want more love in my life, so i think of all the loving things i've done for other people.

3. it's more powerful to say what you want and think about it, than what you don't.

4. if you constantly think of what you don't want, you run the risk of attracting more of it.

5. humans magnetize things - this is the #1 reason why it's important to raise your vibration. you attract things, people, situations, etc. that are on a similar vibration to you. raising it, creates a better situation for yourself. you're not only able to grow, but the quality of what you attract expands.

6. be prepared for your stuff to show up in unexpected ways. be SPECIFIC, down to the wire. the more specific you are, the quicker you see results/faster you get what you're asking for.

i'm big on this one - when i'm manifesting a bill (cost) or even in line at the grocery store, i visualize what i want the exact amount to be, etc. it works.

example: when i want a bus to show up or cab, i might say to myself: "please send me an empty #10 bus that can stop to pick us up. i need to get somewhere by 9:00, etc.". i've gotten to the point now where i can just use my will and think of the #10 bus as it's pulling up and the exact time i need to be somewhere.

7. you can should start out small, etc.

8. my first manifestation was the red shoes i wanted. i went in to try them on, and looked at them several times, etc. and added them to my mental "list" when i channeled.

i later decided to wait until they went on sale, at least 1/2 off. they'll come down soon.

oddly enough, i saw several other pairs of red high heels that were in my price range that i could have bought, but passed up on them. i'm still finding them months later.

i later went into the same store and saw a pair that i liked even more, so i'm willing the price down, etc. we'll see what happens.

have fun with this - use mantra's, they work.

9. i have my "i have unlimited abundance" all over my house and even in my wallet.

10. the man tip - i've changed my direction a little bit and my speed, i've come up with my own mantra about men, and it's helped me.

the spiderman boys - i agree, it's cute until it's in your face and you see what's really behind it. insecurity, emotional immaturity, fear of growing up, etc.

i heart the geeks, these men are usually intelligent, good looking, and were unfortunately passed up because they seemed odd/different, etc. i love men who carry pens, etc. the difference might be that they are real about who they are, they aren't afraid to be nerds, etc.

i personally don't think there's much difference in terms of nerdiness with the trueblue nerds vs. the spiderman boys. but don't tell that to a spidey! they'll outright deny that they are nerds. what a shame.

the gaming is cool as a hobby, but not as a lifestyle or if it's used in place of real interaction, or relationships.

*there's a big difference between "being young at heart" or "feeling young". i think those are important qualities. being afraid to grow older or clinging onto old ways is plain stupid.*

it's not even clever or smart humor, it's boring after a while.

i'm just not into that.

i'm sorry the guy that you dated became whiny, i've experienced some of that myself and it's the last thing that any single mother needs to be dealing with.

you and your son deserve only the best, someone with the right/best intentions and someone who knows what they want.

this is what i'm striving for.

i would highly recommend "soul love" - by sanaya roman. it teaches you how to channel/manifest a soul mate, etc. i channel daily to my mate, even though i haven't met them yet. in the book it suggest doing this, because you can "put out" what you want to build your relationship on, etc.

i always throw in trust, recioprocity, love, etc.

have fun with this!

hearts friend,

dc

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thanks for gifting me, dc. i'm going to start trying this today and will look around for the book on the next payday. hey, i feel really positive about trying this and i'm going to take your advice and start small. i'll let you know how it goes.

just on the thankful tip - i'm so lucky to have so many cool, smart, funky and funny people in my life and you're one of them. thanks for being such a powerful force of positivity and awesomeness.

i'm late, i'm sorry!

word on picking up the book - it will work wonders for you, i promise.

no matter which one you start with, you'll pick up some great life saving/changing/inspiring tips.

my counselor turned me onto sanaya - and now i'm reading david deida, good lord, there's a lot of awesome material out there!

it's just waiting to be discovered!

and once you do it, and apply it, there's no turning back!

i can't wait to try your beer tomorrow - this is going to help me get through the week - big thanks geek!

your friend,

christy or just another dragon who lives in seattle!

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