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Things not going as plannedSubmitted by bleu7102 on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 1:56pm.
So, the sale of our house has basically fallen through. Buyer did not get his financing, is not working with the new lender to see if they can do it. He's a fucktard and I would kick him square in the junk if he were in front of me. We will be signing the form today to get the binder, though it's not near enough to really feel like it's fair. We should be loading up the uhaul today, and closing tomorrow. Instead we'll be living 4 hours away from each other for who knows how long. Very bittersweet. I've been longing to move back for a while now, and now I am. But it's all fucked up. Ugh. I know things will work out in the end, but right now it all looks shitty. Thanks so much, mamas. And you're right, maybe this is for a reason. I was just so looking forward to being done with all of this, and now we have to start over. I think that's the worst part, ya know? I mean, being separated from DH will suck of course, but I will be with family, so I won't be alone. And he has friends here to occupy some of his time. But just having to start all over again and things still being all up in the air just sucks. BleuRoo Handcrafted Sweetness I was thinking about you yesterday, wondering. What a pain in the ass. I'm sorry you'll have to do the move on your own, without DH- that must be bittersweet indeed. Hopefully something will come up soon and DH can join you and the babe quicker. I hope you have lots of "free" cell phone minutes/long distance!!! I'm sorry. That sucks. like since your dh is staying, you'll end up finding a way better buyer who gives you more money? Regardless, even though I am always sad to leave dh, the absence really does make my heart grow fonder. I get annoyed with all of the little things sometimes and they start to build up, and that leaving, that I don't want to do, can sometimes erase all of that build up and remind me why I fell in love with him in the first place. So, even though it sucks, I think that some good can/will come out of it! "Fundamentally the markswoman aims at herself" DT Suzuki big hugs for you, bleu. i know you're feeling pretty shitty right now but it'll get better.... everything will work out in time, i promise. for now, try to stay busy with friends and family while you're missing DH. it's not that same as having him with you, but it'll be comforting to be around other people you love. try to smile, babe.... everything's okay. HUGS! this sucks I know. A few years back after the hurricanes in FL DH took me and DS to MAss and left us there for almost two months. It sucked because it was a new place for me, so at least you are going to your hometown and know people. And besides distance makes the heart grow fonder. I wisj you luck and sending some vibes. |
hang in there. It'll work out in the end.
*HUGS*